We open with a short aerial shot of an agricultural landscape that is peripheral to the logo of the production company. The accordion and other instruments are already in session when the scene shifts to the singer longingly leaning on barrels of alcohol as the camera glides towards him. He’s wearing dark clothing, a red and black combination of a caballero outfit, with a heavy silver cross the size of a small child’s hand shining at the center of his chest. This is the form the singer takes when exiting the storyline of the music video that is introduced shortly after these establishment shots.
As the vocals start gearing up for entry, we return to the agricultural scenery where the singer is toiling. He’s a young man with a very boyish face, and although he goes to wipe sweat of his forehead, he looks to have already been bereft of perspiration or dirt on his denim work-wear. The moment the vocals announce themselves, the video begins alternating between the singer as a singer, in his red and black wear, and the singer as a character in the story arc. When out of the story, the singer has behind him a stoic mariachi band who play the instrumentals of the song but never interact with the world they are placed in. This transience doesn’t apply to the emotionally strung singer who readily drinks the tequila that comes from the colorful and, no doubt, brand placed bottles on the bar counter.
The story of the music video is a that of a courting relationship between the singer (farmworker) and a love interest (bartender). In the initial phase, the two are intimate with each other. At the bar alone, they greet each other with great affection – kissing each other over the counter. There is comfort evident in the hand placement and in the ease of laughter and smiles. Their standing is further solidified in the scene where they are on the back of a horse being unmistakable as a couple. Here the singer holds the bartender closely and delivers a kiss that neither reacts much to. These outdoor shots, happening in the day, are drained of much of their saturation and brightness.
Conflict arises at the entry of another man at the bar. He is not much different from the singer in appearance or dress, but clearly, he was persuasive as he quickly charmed the bartender whilst our protagonist is absent. Our singer returns to the bar with a cheerful smile and a bouquet of flowers only to be greeted by his presumed partner sitting on the knee of another man. She is wearing a darker, redder shade of lipstick than before and her clothing is likewise more revealing than in past interactions. As she sits on the stranger’s knee and caresses his head, she pays no attention to our singer.
But she herself ends up becoming a secondary accessory to the charming man who as it turns out is something of a womanizer. Outside in the night and in front of a conveniently placed Porsche, the bartender is unceremoniously dumped in favor of a new woman. Angered, she walks off in search of our singer and finds him sitting at the end of a pedestrian stone bridge.
It’s still nighttime but their meeting is strongly illuminated. He is not angry and there is still kindness and affection in the way he looks and addresses her, but his mind is already made up. As the song goes, he bids farewell to his “love,” resigning himself to forgetting her even if he still has feelings for her. And so the video ends with a close up of the nonplused bartender watching her former suitor walk off.
There is nothing revolutionary in this story. But that is not to say that its handling of infidelity, class differences, alcohol and gender are done on a single dimension. At the core of the video is the masculinity of the singer. Our singer is certainly presented as a virtuous person to whom our sympathies are owed. He’s clean shaven, wears a cross, “toils” on a farm, brings flowers, dresses like a cowboy and has a horse to boot. In effect, his masculinity is constructed as safely traditional machismo. However the story, it must be recalled, is told by him and through his memories. And these memories cannot be taken as pristine as he is seen drinking at nearly every appearance.
The primacy of alcohol is never questioned, and its inescapability is presented as a refuge. Much of the story is set in a bar, and it is in the same bar the singer spends his time outside the story. Perhaps it is less a matter of cultural signaling and more a consequence of brand placement, but the end message is the same: drinking is a healthy and potentially manly response to heartbreak. The singer is allowed to be emotional while inebriated, but he is considerably more subdued and stoic when sober.
Infidelity is also treated in a way to secure the singer’s masculinity. First, it is the bartender who leaves him (and ultimately tries to get him back). Second, his apparent loss was presumably due to a gulf in wealth between him and the other suitor. But it was already established that he is a hard, honest worker, so comparing him to someone with enough resources to own a luxury car is presented as unfair and not an indictment of our singer’s shortcomings.
On the one hand, I am glad to see that he did not return to the bartender who cheated on him. Knowing one’s worth is an important thing, but I also do not want to ignore the potential problems coming from the music video. By having a safe self-insert character in a tale of heartbreak, the audience can be easily, and perhaps passively, moved to view the story as a kind of template to follow. I do not mean a blind substitution of reality with fiction. Instead, I am eyeing the way certain themes are romanticized to reinforce problematic norms especially those related to drinking. Drowning in alcohol should not be seen as a prerequisite to showing emotion. But maybe this concern is overstated? Prior to searching for the music video, I had only ever streamed the song. Of the 1.5B views, I wonder how many can be counted as legitimate viewings of the video and not just the audio.